FATHER'S BONDING WITH BABY
It is difficult to describe what bonding is, it is certainly
getting to know your baby and exploring her through her senses and through yours. It's
also to do with attachment, protectiveness and possessiveness.
Establishing relationship with your baby begins the second she is
born. Research has shown that the sensitive period for bonding is the first hour of
life. At this time babies are usually quite but alert.
Research has even shown that
parents who are given unrestricted contact with their children immediately after delivery
raise their children in a more constructive way than parents whose babies are taken away
Fathers first contact
Paternal bonding to an infant is not very different from maternal bonding. So during the
sensitive period it is important for the father to hold his baby to make eye and skin
contact. Taking care of a newborn is often elementally reduced to feeding and comforting
and some new dads do not know if what they have got are fit enough for it. Here are few
actions which will reassure a new dad that he can be a very good and caring dad.
your baby the midnight bottle feed
Once the baby is on a supplement or formula the new father should take it on him to
give the midnight bottle feed. It is having time alone with the baby will respond
a bath together
The combination of a screaming baby to a slippery skin may make the first time dad
nervous. Let your husband be an on looker for the first time and soon he will be
comfortable playing with him with his bath toys, etc.
During a change you get to touch the baby and talk to him
there during illness
Nobody wants their baby to get sick. A night spent rocking a sick child will make
painfully, preciously realize what parenthood is all about.